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My Thai Girl and I
This is the story of how I met my wife, Cat and how we set up home together out in the rice fields in the North East of Thailand. I’d been working on the book for three years and am delighted that it’s now published. For readers’ first reactions to the book, please click on ‘Readers Forum’. Click here to read the first chapters of “My Thai Girl and I”.
Thai Girl
It has been reprinted seven times, including a new edition published by Monsoon Books in Singapore for world wide distribution. (See the pastel cover design above.) A total of 18,000 copies of 'Thai Girl' are now in print. Shortly after publication by Monsoon Books, 'Thai Girl' was listed second only to Dan Brown's 'Da Vinci Code' on Singapore's 'Times Newslink' bestseller list, outselling 'Memoirs of a Geisha', Wilbur Smith and other such slow selling stuff. At the end of May 2006, 'Thai Girl' was launched in the USA and on Amazon. Click here to read the first chapters of "Thai Girl”.
Big Blog Blag! Please visit my blog, 'The Exotic Adventures of a Literary Sexagenarian'. It has received over 70,000 hits and is all about my life in Isaan with Cat, including zany commentary on rural life, lady boys, the rough and tumble of politics and all things Thai. If you have read MY THAI GIRL AND I and want to read more news of Andrew and Cat, you’ll find it on the blog.
Critical Acclaim for “Thai Girl”
“Thai Girl” is a story which has great passion for Thailand and its idiosyncrasies.
Credited with opening a window on Thai culture and interactions between
Thais and farang… “Thai Girl” has become one of the biggest-selling
English language novels ever published in Thailand. “Thai Girl” is in essence a travel novel that explores
Thailand’s complex society through the eyes of young backpackers
as they discover the delights of Bangkok, Koh Samet and Koh Chang, and
it attempts to explain the cultural gap between East and West through
the experiences of a young foreigner and his Thai girlfriend. The author’s
powers of observation are remarkable. He writes so well and informatively
about Thailand, its culture and the myriad aspects of society here, and
for that reason alone, “Thai Girl” is well worth reading. Thai Girl is the definitive novel about relationships between Thais
and foreigners.
When Fon, the ‘Thai girl’ appears, she takes over
the novel and makes it fly. Pretty, sassy, coquettish, ambitious and
iron-willed, Fon fairly leaps off the page, a living breathing character.
Always there is the delightful Fon, lighting up Ben’s life and
the novel itself. The highlight of the book is Ben’s trip with
Fon to her ancestral village. The physical setting and the rhythms of
life here are beautifully observed. “Thai Girl” opens doors on a world of cross-cultural complexity
where misunderstandings abound. Its author is one of few writers who understand
that
in the Land of Smiles, nothing and no one is what they seem. I couldn’t
put the book down.
Hicks has done very well in his pen sketch of the Thai psyche of the Isaan
girl, who can be open and closed, off-hand and standoffish all at the same
time.
Congratulations on an excellent novel that captures the real essence of
Thailand and the traditional Isaan woman. I found myself not far from tears for
both
Fon and Ben at their parting and the dilemma they both faced in not being able
to be together.
Whenever I looked up from the pages of “Thai Girl”, I had
to think for a few seconds to remember that I was not still in Thailand! I could
not
put the book down because it so well portrays and then offers explanations
for, or perspectives on, the many customs and behaviours I have witnessed but
not always understood whilst in Thailand. “Thai Girl” explores Thailand, its culture and its people
through the eyes of a western visitor, Ben, as he observes the Bangkok scene
and confronts
the issues affecting a nation in flux, rapidly industrializing and as it does
so, leaving many of its traditional values behind. It also explores the nature
of today’s young Thai women, many with their roots in rural poverty but
with their eyes on the glitter of a sparkling consumer society. Pick up a copy
and take a journey of your own through the heartlands of Thailand. This book seems to me to be really about educating the sex tourist.
I think they should make you buy this book at Bangkok arrivals. It might
make a few Westerners think twice before getting involved with the commercial
sex scene.
I found you book highly readable and days after finishing it I'm still thinking
about it. Please say you're writing a sequel - I'd love to know what happens
next. I thought your Thai characters were very well drawn and Fon certainly
dispels many of the stereotypes. Hicks addresses the age old question that crosses the mind of every single visitor to Thailand; in a white-guy-meets-Thai-girl relationship, who's really holding the chips? When a tourist splits with his girlfriend on a holiday in Thailand, he finds himself enraptured by a charming-yet-mysterious local woman. The novel's Thai heroine is a multilayered character, at times passive and helpless, at times wry and controlling.
What comes across as a couple wrapped up in mind games will get you thinking
about power dynamics in general, and how gender, age, ethnic and economic differences
all factor together. The endlessly complex characters will leave you guessing
until the very end. Feminists may find this relationship hard to handle, men
who date Thai women may find it instantly relatable. Regardless of your opinions
on the falang/Thai romance phenomenon, Hicks' honest dialogues and relatable
themes makes this book an absorbing read. A British backpacker falls for a reticent young masseuse on Koh Samet
but struggles with age-old cross-cultural confusion in this sensitive
attempt at a different kind of expat novel.
On the surface, this is a simple love story but it contains many interesting
insights into Thai culture, foreigners traveling in Thailand and the points
where they collide. As the romance plays out, issues such as poverty, migrant
workers and the sex industry are explored. This is an excellent book for promoting
discussion about some of these issues. It helps give a deeper insight into
the real Thailand that many tourists never really see or understand.
Andrew Hicks really manages to give the reader a great insight into the mentality
of the traditional Thai girl and how she tries to explain the differences in
culture and attitudes to the naïve Ben. Perhaps my favourite part of the
book is when Fon takes Ben to her home in Buriram province. This is when the
author, with his experience of Isaan, manages to afford the reader a delightfully
giddy adventure into the realities of every-day north eastern life. Written
well, you can almost hear the quack quack of the village ducks.
Your book has already entered the pantheon of 'must read' books for expats
moving here and for backpackers staying on longer than they'd planned. Also
for expats going on home leave who want to give folks back home a fictional
taste of life here. Well done!
"Thai Girl" by Andrew Hicks describes the encounter of a British guy
with Thai culture and a Thai girl he inevitably falls in love with,
as well as the cultural differences he faces.
Brings back a lot of memories of when I was in Thaland. Great love story. I
couldn’t put it down and finished the book in two days.
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